I am a single woman who is not willing to keep wasting time with dating. The older I am getting, I am thinking about what it is that I want out of life. The things that when I’m old and looking back that I would be sad if I missed out on. Blowing my chance at creating a life and being a mom due to the sole fact that I couldn’t find a good man would make me a lonely bitter old man-hating bat for sure. I can honestly say I couldn't care less if I never have a relationship in my future. The current dating pool just ain’t it. I’ve spent my entire 20s and early 30s meeting loser after loser, or bogus tinder dates with guys that are just incompatible. I am ready for the next part of my life and I’m ready to put all of my energy into being a mom and giving my future kid(s) the world. I feel as though I have not started living life until that happens and my main goal at the moment is taking action to make sure I get it.

I am new to finding a donor in this way and am still not sure what method would be best for me. I thought I’d go to a clinic and get IUI with donor sperm from a cryobank but at $1400+ per vial, I feel like I’m buying really expensive lottery tickets and could end up blowing through a huge chunk of my savings with the potential of having nothing to show for it.

I am looking for local because I am not able to travel far. Also not looking to co parent, and I would not bother you for anything. I’m open to figuring out contact if that is something you wanted but if wanting to stay anonymous I am good with that too.

I think that is mostly everything and if not, if you made it this far, and want to know anything else, we can talk!