It's been quite a journey getting to this point in my life and typing out an "about me" here feels rather crazy? But at the same time..... I think I would be crazy not to?

I was born and grew up in Zimbabwe, Africa. I have travelled and worked in the UK, Australia and South Africa but have found my way back home to Zimbabwe, close to family and friends and the lifestyle and environment I would like to create and raise a family in. I truly believe it is one of the most amazing countries to raise a child, regardless of what you will see on the news or internet.

I love to travel and being outdoors, I specifically enjoy camping in the African bush, as wildlife and conservation is a passion and has a precious space in my heart and you will find me packed and ready to go on a fishing trip in two minutes flat, I am a fairly creative person and a doer but also think I am an undiagnosed person living with ADHD so you will find plenty of crafty or DIY projects on the go at any one time or Im getting my hands dirty in the garden. I love entertaining and am consistently on the go to make somesort of plan to meet up with friends or family for a good braai (BBQ) meal at home or going out and eating something delicious and catching up with those i love most. I am a sucker for a dance floor and live music - preferably the older kinds - the kind that I was singing into a hairbrush as a child....... music with words and meaning and a tune that will have me kicking off my shoes so I can flick some hoof.

Professionally speaking I have spent most of my time in senior management positions, but figured out a while ago that i was doing all the hard work and putting in all the time while making someone rich so I turned it around and now run 2 of my own businesses for the past 7-8 years. I also currently work as a PA for a legal accountant. I am not a workaholic - I swear. I just have too much time on my hands and i would probably disintegrate into a puddle of boredom and sadness if I didnt fill it with things that make me feel useful, connected and joyous. I will keep doing this until i have a beautiful little soul to give all my love and time to.

Unfortunately I gave the last 19 years to a guy who didnt really want me but didnt want me to be with anyone else. It has been a hell of a ride, but I have learnt some fantastic lessons and instead of begging for a seat at someones table I am now building my own table.

Ultimately I would much prefer to meet prince charming and we fall madly in love and create the most perfect family, im just not sure how likely that is and I am no longer willing to gamble with my chance of becoming a parent.

So I am looking for a man or men, gay or straight who would be interested in on going on the most incredible adventure of a lifetime and become parents with me.

PS: I am naturally dark blonde