Hi, I am a widow, hence why I am now going the sperm donation route. I am looking for a healthy sperm donor preferably age 35 and younger. After ,my partner passed away due to an accident my circumstances have changed. After his death, I had a lot of time to really reflect about my next step. I saw two fertility specialists and I have had tests done to find out where I am at. It was concluded that due to the fact that I have advanced endometriosis I am running out of time and have a very limited egg reserve. I simply do not have 5-10 years to wait to do this organically.

Doctors have told me conceiving naturally would not be a successful option for me. At this point I am ready to under go IVF/egg retrieval to have my eggs frozen. Due to having so few eggs I would like to have donor sperm ready to fertilize the egg reserve that will be recovered.

I am interested a donor who is also of a mixed race background like I am. AI donor preferred. I am willing to travel for the right donor and pay for shipping costs, genetic testing and would like to have multiple vials of sperm to have the possible option for my a full blood related sibling down the line. STD test results on paper are essential. I am also happy to pay for genetic testing for donors too whatever you are comfortable with.

I am a home owner, I live in Northern CA, I have a good career and a supportive family too. I would not expect any support from a donor, of course am happy to sign a contract stating that to have clear parameters set. Of course I would want the child to know their biological father's ethnic heritage. If the donor wanted pictures of the child or some contact down the road when the child was older or an adult I am open to that. If the donor prefers no contact that is okay too. I am willing to honor the donors wishes.

Whoever my donor ends up being, I will be and am incredibly grateful to them and their willing to provide me with this gift of donation. I would like to meet in person or FaceTime as this is a big decision for me that I am not taking lightly.