Creative, grounded, Northern European soul seeking to co-parent with a wise person who has the utmost respect for their physical and emotional health.

Ideally, I'd be in a romantic relationship with that co-parent. But if such a connection does not align, I'd like that co-parent to be in the same city as me, and to have active involvement in the child's life as a healthy male role model.

My plan is to be pregnant by February 2027. I am about to undergo egg freezing, and will conceive via a donor to become SMBC (solo mother by choice) if I do not cross paths with the right person. That's my plan, and it's wonderful to have a plan and to have the resources to bring that plan to fruition. But, it would be more ideal to have someone by my side.

I'm hoping in the next 23 months, that person will cross my path! They must be out there. Maybe they're on here?

I'm committed to staying mostly in London, but ideally would like to raise a child for the first few years in the countryside. I am also committed to maintaining a wide circle of friends and bringing a child up with a rich cultural life, which I've found is pretty inaccessible in the deep countryside. Trust me - I've tried!

The things I love most are travel, which I would like to do extensively with my child(ren), if they are into it, the arts, languages, health and cooking.

More values: I am adamantly against allowing children to experiment with social media until they're old enough to know what it really means. I'd err more towards a carefree, mildly hippy existence (with vaccines, of course)! I believe in being outside, exploring the natural world and getting a bit muddy whenever possible. This is possible in some parts of North London, I believe, and there would be plenty of opportunity for weekend trips to explore wilder landscapes.

I'm educated, healthy, highly organised and sensible and currently highly fertile. I've had ups and downs relating to health in the past, but have no inheritable diseases.

I'm not going to jump into anything too soon, and I'd of course want to build a strong, trusting relationship, either romantically or platonically before any future decisions are made. Send me a message if the above has resonated.