I am looking for a co-parenting friendship, with no sex involved. The ideal co-parent is willing to participate in the caring upbringing of our child and to share the costs of parenthood.
Hands on support would be preferred especially in the first three/four years.
I will live with my husband whom will help me as well with the upbringing of our (mine and yours) child but will unlikely contribute on a financial level because he has other responsibilities (not children of his own). It is therefore a must that you are willing and able to support our child financially.
 
As a guidance your annual income needs to be between 30,000 and 60,000 depending on age. I would like a co-parent of an equivalent background to mine.

I am an Italian born and have been based in London for the last 13 years. My husband is Pakistani and all of our families live in Italy and Pakistan.

Somebody local or willing to move to London might suit better as we do not have family members  around that can support us with childcare. Said this I am open to the endless potential scenarios.

If you have an immigrant background, 3rd generation (means that your grandfather and your father were born and raised in  England) would probably be better because my husband and I are foreigner already. I imagine that sharing a child with a 3rd person is a lot more delicate than having a biological child that genetically belongs to both the husband and wife. I am trying to simplify all the rest.

Somebody stably rooted here is my ideal as I plan to stay here and bring my child up in England.

I would be delighted in having a child with a good enough co-parent match.
It does not have to be perfect but it needs to be realistic enough to make my husband and I feel comfortable. As this might take some time or not, depending on fate,  please be prepared to build a friendship up beforehand, involving my and your partner,  if you have any.

I have been employed part-time in the antenatal diagnostic sector for 13 years in London. I have always paired this up with another part-time or full time childcare position as a nanny. By choice.

In Italy I was working in adult mental health and children education as a SEN Primary school teacher and Psychologist, both in primary and secondary schools. I have 23 years of working experience with children aged 0-18. Mostly early years in the recent past.

I genuinely enjoy being around young people and I am exploring the idea of sharing a baby with another couple, gay or heterosexual or a single man.

I would like to raise my child here in London and my ideal co-parent would be rooted here,  like minded, live nearby and give presence and financial support.

This is just a potential scenario as every person is unique and deserves to be uniquely considered.

Ideally, you and your partner would live at a walking distance (i.e.: same building, different flats) or something like that. I would like hands on support for the first years at least, as I plan to continue working throughout the pregnancy,  if possible, and soon after as a childminder from home.

If you cannot offer hands on support you might need to offer more financial support to cover childcare costs. I am fond of fair and sustainable long-term relationships. I am talking about a modern family based in the same area because I would like the dad to be very present in our life.

Since I seem to get along, both on a professional and friendship basis, with people that work in medicine, transport, IT and artists, having one of these backgrounds might be an advantage.

Please take all the above as humble suggestions. Everybody with like minded characteristics and willingness is welcome.