All my life I’ve wanted children. I was involved in an eighteen year relationship, and wanted to wait until I was married. That never happened, and now I’m running out of time. My parents divorced when I was too young to remember, but they have also never fought in front of my brother or myself. My father raised us on his own, and always made sure we saw our mother. No court ordered anything, and that is what I’m hoping to find here. Someone who wants to be a father, and spend time with his kids.

I am a fun, calm person. I don’t like drama and I’m not a control freak. I get along with people very well, and I think there is never a need to fight over children. I don’t believe in using kids as tools, which happens a lot after divorce or break ups. I haven't really dated, and refuse to sleep around, so it’s not very easy in my case to just get pregnant.

Basically I’m looking for a kind, intelligent, financially secure man who is like minded about having a child, or children. I’m flexible on ways to conceive, and I have been surgically diagnosed as fertile.

I would love to find someone who I can get along with and feel would be an appropriate father. I have no racial preference. I want a person who I could be close friends with to father my child.

I never imagined myself trying something like this. I have traditional values, am a private person, and I think this is an ideal way to find someone who feels like I do, someone who wants a child and wants to be in that child’s life.

So, I don’t know if this gives a good idea of who I am, but I’m a good, healthy woman. I believe children come first in your life when you have them, and nothing would make me happier than to be a mother, who’s father is just as thrilled as I am. A child should always feel loved, safe, and at peace. If this sounds agreeable to someone so far, I would love to get to know more about that person and discuss parenting beliefs in more specific details.