I am a single female. Never married. No children. Creative Director, with extended family in London and the South East. So far I’ve been unlucky in love, but have so much to share.

I’ve always wanted to be (and naïvely, simply expected to be) a mother. Hilariously, as the ever-optimistic child that I was: I was convinced that it would all just happen when I turned 21. Like in the illustrated scene in Cinderella: where the squirrels and birds rally around her, and make everything fall into place beautifully, so that she “shall go to the ball.” As if by magic.

Nowadays I’m rather more realistic…hence taking the opportunity to join this site. Life’s most important things aught to be a conscious decision. They needn’t be left to mere chance.

I have nannied 5 young children, all of close family friend’s, over the years. I’m not afraid of the hectic, nor of the tough stuff.

(Hopefully in this Pollentree-scenario this is not an overshare… I’ll just put it out there) at the age of 35 I froze 13 eggs, for concern I might miss my healthy biological chance of motherhood. This specific choice and action was catalysed during the time of Covid, where, of course, meeting someone physically could not happen! I have no fertility concerns, nor family history of any, and I still have a clockwork-regular cycle.

I would love to have the opportunity to conceive naturally, with the right man. However, my mini-eggs are safely on ice in the meantime, should that desire remain unmet.

I want to share the joys and reality of family life; and to move towards making the world a better place, in our own little way, as a team. If not romantically (I know this isn’t a ‘dating site’ per se) then as a committed, responsible and respectful co-parent.

I am happy to either be primary caregiver, or would also be welcome of and would gladly share a 50/50 parenting life. That’s the fun part, and for us to figure out together. Someone who can roll with the changes in life and adapt alongside the stages of our children/s’ lives, is my hope for a co-parenting Father.

I look forward to talking with you, if my profile piques your interest.