I’m a female that works in the tech industry. I’ve been with my partner for 8 years now and we’re wanting to start a family. My partner and I are financially stable but the cost of IVF and everything else involved is daunting. I figured if we could cut the middleman out and find a donor directly, it would at least save us a little bit and allow us to actually get to know our child’s father. Looking for a sperm donor or possibly someone to coparent with. We would also consider adopting as well. Ultimately, we’re open to talking and seeing what agreements make the most sense. I’m fine with someone just donating and having zero obligation or contact as well. I just figured for my child’s sake, they could provide some info about their ancestory in case they have questions when they get older. I also understand some guys want children but don’t want a wife or what not. I also am open to the idea of the father being in the child’s life even if it’s just a little bit so that they have a father figure in their life. Again, completely optional. With communication, I think we can come to a happy middle ground for everyone.

A little more about me: I’m 5’3” (so definitely need someone with taller genes LOL), mixed ethnicity Caucasian / middle eastern / Mexican and have big brown eyes (them middle eastern genes haha) and brown hair. I’m very intelligent and have 2 college degrees. My bachelors is in business and I majored in management information systems - can’t get too much nerdier than that. Haha! 😂 I do have ADHD and am borderline on the spectrum (high functioning) but honestly I don’t see it as a negative thing. It’s almost like a super power and gives me the ability to solve problems quickly, more efficiently, think outside the box and not panic under pressure. So if you’re looking for someone perfect in that regard, I may not be the best fit for you. I’m very blunt, direct and to the point but I’m also very compassionate and empathetic. I’m very patient and would give the shirt off my back to someone else who needs it more. My entire life I’ve devoted to supporting my family. I helped raise my little brother who was 10 years younger than me. Unfortunately, he got lymphoblastic lymphoma and passed away a few years ago. One of the things he asked me on his death bed was to have a son and name him in memory of him. So I promised him I would. It took me all this time to finally have the courage and strength to move forward in life and hope that some how some way, we can make this happen without breaking the bank.

I love dogs and animals. We have a farm out in Nevada and though it’s a lot of work, it’s very rewarding. I love crafting. I also love anime and the Asian culture. It’s my dream to visit Japan!

I would say we’re a mix between agnostic and Christian. We both believe in something greater than ourselves and that guides the world’s life force.