A hug is the greatest thing one human being can give to another... simply a hug.

An all around creative who loves to laugh, flirt non-stop and take things as they come. I am a very deep romantic.

In past lives I am sure I was Scandinavian or maybe just Dutch - certainly living in the Middle Ages. I do not, generally, do well spending large amounts of time in America (where I am originally from) given how overwhelming brainwashed most Americans are with one ideology, religion or other - both the liberals and the conservatives - it is all very disappointing on my soul.

When working, my days are hectic and nights usually calm. I have lived all over North America and Europe and am often found in these places. I love to travel but never in a rush. If you are someone who can stop and enjoy the flowers, or pitstop for a month at the beach or in Bangkok, we'd surely get along.

Speaking of “getting along” I would love to have some children ("it is time") - with a home in Europe and/or Turkey and somewhere Eastern seaboard U.S. I went to university in Brussels and lived a number of years in London. Rome is my favorite city on earth, but I adore Montreal, am recently learning Berlin, and have a good time in LA and NY too (I lived many years in both).

Heritage wise, I am an exotic mix of pre-war aristocracy meets full blown American apple pie. My mother’s family (from Ohio) are German-Dutch-English descendant farmers and my dad's (extremely educated) family immigrated to the United States in the 1940s and 50s.

I am not a materialist - and volunteering is important to me and I am quite anti-consumerist.

Like many, I am a charged being, a wee bit kinky when stressed, and naturally loving/dominant (like food & water / yin & yang). I believe the communities we participate in and the experiences we have are what make us beautiful - not the lucky facades the heavens gave us or how much money one may have.

On most days I dream of the ocean, jogging and doing things together. I love deep heat saunas, deep house music 💃, ocean swimming, sailing, probiotics, gardening, estate sales, tennis, yoga, massage and the otherwise essential.

I am beyond dependable, straight-up and respectful of myself and others. I am financially independent and fortunate for that.

I believe in history, living it and learning from it.

At heart, I'm a country boy.

I'm also a pantheist.

ENFP / ENFJ
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PS. Diet: I eat fruit, vegetables, mushrooms, nuts, seafood, chicken, tofu, and occasionally red meat but rarely. I avoid best I can all bread and rice. I love Pho.