My partner and I are a same sex female couple. We have done two attempts at IUI using a sperm bank. Unfortunately both times failed. We can not afford a third try. We have decided to try finding a private sperm donor this way. My partner has a 13 year old daughter through a previous relationship and I also have a 7 year old daughter through a previous relationship. Her and I would like to have a child together to complete our family. We have been married almost one year and have been together 3.5 years.