Hi! I am looking for a loving, responsible, caring and feminist man or a gay/ hetrosexual couple who is willing to be a core part of my child/ children's life :) Please note that I am not interested in finding a donor.

Born and raised in rural Japan, I spent almost all my adult life living, working and traveling across the world, especially Africa. I have worked as a management consultant, a humanitarian worker and now I work for an amazing non-profit organisation in the environment and conservation area. I am fluent in Japanese, English and French, and I speak Swahili and Spanish too.

Becoming a mother has been one of my biggest dreams since I was little. I have given myself a lot of time to think and explore what kind of parenthood/ family would suit my values the most. To me, bringing a life into this world alone is not an option for a number of reasons (please ask me personally!). I would like to adopt, but sadly, my country's law does not allow single people to adopt (hence I cannot adopt even in another country). Most importantly, I have not yet met the right romantic partner with whom I want to have a child with....and this is why I am here

I have many ideas about parenthood, family and raising children. And I would be more than happy to share my thoughts with you. Hoping to find a like-minded wanna-be fathers out there!

My dream is to travel from London to my hometown in Japan overland with my kids. I also want to travel around Africa and Latin America with them. So it will be great if you are up for traveling too. Also, I have a very international career, so our whereabouts in the long-term will need to be discussed. Of course, I will be determined to prioritise my children's well-being and happiness more than anything else.

I hold a masters degree from Oxford. I am healthy, and economically and emotionally independent. I am ENFP. I was a born as a woman, and I still feel that I am a woman. But I am also questioning whether I am rather gender non-binary or not. And I am exploring polyamorous relationships too. I do not think it would affect my future kids negatively, but just wanted to be clear on this with you in case it matters to you. :)

Please note that I do not reply to messages from people who have not made efforts to fill their profile. I also do not reply to somehow creepy messages - please be respectful and kind in your first message.