Hi there,

I am looking to be a known donor (not anonymous) and a part co-parent, perhaps similar to a weekend dad. I know this may sound funny - being on the fence. The thing is that I don't think I would be any good at looking after a baby full time, at this stage in my life, although on the other hand I know that I would be a very caring, nurturing, encouraging and inspirational dad once the child is a little older and I can have conversations with them. I also believe that a child at one point would ask, and want to know who their dad is, under any circumstances, and that this is an important factor in a person's life - contributing to an individual's sense of feeling whole. Personally, knowing that I have a child in this world, is a longtime wish and dream of mine. It would be of the upmost importance to me that I have a good relationship with the child's mother, and that we would be mutually supportive in an easygoing and relaxed way.

I am a good-natured, peaceful, kind, grounded, creative professional, working in psychology with a steady job. I have my own penthouse apartment in Bermondsey – 'nearish' London Bridge. I like the arts as well as keeping fit regularly, by running, cycling, swimming and kayaking. I do not have any health complications and I am completely disease-free and take no medication for anything; I am lucky that way. I don't smoke and I'm not allergic to anything.

I am born gay and have been in a couple of longtime relationships in the past. My only reservation with the way I was born, is that it has naturally never been a simple task, producing children. I am looking for a relaxed friendly mother, as the ultimate prime carer, with whom I can agree the best way forward, with my role as the known dad. If you agree with me and feel that my profile interests you in any way, please don't hesitate to get in touch. We could always have a coffee and a chat about it all, right? This is all new to me too 🙂 take care - all the best for now.