Mom of a 7 yr old, I had split with his father almost 5 years ago and for multiple reasons life decided to throw at me I was unable to go about my original plan of having a second child around the time my first child turned 5. Now things are settled and I was now planning on beginning of next year to try again. I am being probably a little weird but my son is half asian, Hmong, and my new partner is asian as well, Filipino, so I am wanting similar genetics for the second baby so there's a resemblance to both my partner and child.