Non-binary and heavily neurodivergent. Disabled, but a lot of that is likely related to trauma. Will say I’d like the co-parent to be free of as many mental and physical health issues as possible… just want a good outcome for my kid, naturally. Wouldn’t be surprised if my kid ends up a bit neurodivergent themselves; that does not bother me. I just prefer that the co-parent not be as I don’t want to increase the risk of my kid having a difficult case of neurodivergence. For the pregnancy, I would definitely be getting off any unsafe medication. Will be wanting to breastfeed if possible.

I’m queer; I don’t mind an LGBT co-parent.

Thick dark brown hair, rare eye color (grayish-blue), 5’ 4.5”, Caucasian, European ancestry, eastern European features. Faint freckles. Wanting someone with similar features. Blue or gray eyes, or even the same eye color as mine.

I’ve been stressing about having a kid due to my health issues and disabilities. Worried I may never have them… just learned about this site. You may have more “custody” than me just due to the nature of my health issues. I’m actively seeking treatment and hope to get better, but I’m so scared that by the time I get better, it will be too late to have kids.

I want a gentle co-parent… aside from being a huge believer in gentle parenting, I know my kid(s) might inherit some of my sensitive nature. I don’t really want to raise my kid with a religion; spirituality may be okay. If my kid becomes religious of their own choice, that is fine, I just don’t want to force that on them. I would prefer my kid be on a vegan, vegetarian, or plant-based diet, assuming that diet is safe for them. If they choose to eat meat or dairy later on on their own, that is fine. I do want my kids to be vaccinated.

A lot of people would say I’m smart. Did great in high school. Got into a great college, but have not finished yet due to my health issues. Really love languages, technology, psychology, philosophy, comedy, video games, and animation. I like to draw. Although I am sensitive to criticism, if I am called out on something legitimate, I do make an effort to change. I consider myself pretty self-aware and a critical, deep thinker. I am a very passionate, ambitious, and resilient person. I think I have decent cognitive empathy and compassion. I can be a bit judgmental, but I am always working on it. I am a leftist. You don’t have to share my interests. I would hope you are a leftist too. If you’re not, I would hope you’re open-minded and not interested in causing conflict.

Thanks for reading!