Hello there!

Thank you for taking the time to learn more about me.
This is certainly not the way I thought I’d have a child (or two!), but the one thing the pandemic has taught me is that you can’t keep waiting. If there is a way to reach a dream, take it no matter how unconventional it may be.

A bit more about me. With a parent in the military, I was fortunate to grow up overseas. Don’t ask if I can speak another language because the answer is no. I know enough to get around and order some food, but could not carry out a full conversation. I would love a co parent that was fluent in another language or be willing to learn another language with me and we could teach our child. I think knowing another language is beneficial to a child and helps them learn of other cultures.

Growing up overseas has shaped a large part of who I am. I always try to be respectful of someone else’s customs and try to understand other point of views. Everyone has different experiences, and I don’t expect everyone to think like me.

In terms of hobbies I like to think of myself as a renaissance woman, but will certainly say I’m a master of few. Dancing is a passion for me and I currently teach. This is on top of a full time job. This would of course stop when a child is on the way. After a schedule is determined, I’d like to return to dancing and teaching eventually, but a child would certainly come first.

I also am starting to play my violin again after a long hiatus and hopefully will learn to play the guitar too. Music and dance have been a part of my life longer than it hasn’t. I’d like to expose my child to instruments and dance lessons and if they like it, help them explore their interests. If they don’t like musical instruments or dance, that’s fine. I’m fairly certain I’d like a child of mine explore as much as was financial possible. Well, as long as it doesn’t involve snakes. I think I would draw the line there. Can’t be 100% cool.

I have a full-time job and a career that I’m established in, which is why I feel comfortable taking this HUGE step of bringing a life into this world.

Last, but not least, I’m sure you want to know what I’m looking for in a coparent. A coparent to me is someone who would be a partner in the whole process. We would be raising and making decisions together in raising our child. Ideally, I would like to at least live in the same school district to make getting our child to and from school a bit easier on both of us. Yes I’m already thinking of schools. I try to think as far ahead as possible and plan for multiple situations. Everything doesn’t happen as planned and I won’t break down if none of my plans work out. No one can say I didn’t try though!

There’s so much more that would need to be discussed. This is just a glimpse of who I am. I’ll happily discuss anything and everything else.