I have been in the service for 25 years. I haven't found my person and I am running out of time to have children. It's all I have ever wanted. The Military doesn't help with this type of service. I am not looking for a partner but I would be open to discuss potential contact with the child, although I would want to establish myself as the primary caregiver. I would like to reserve the right to limit contact if the situation becomes unhealthy for the child. Given a healthy environment, it would not be my intent to keep a child from knowing and having a potential relationship with the father.