I am a married gay man based in SE London and looking to find a woman or lesbian couple who want to start a coparenting journey with me. I would like to be actively involved throughout to support the mother and child, in the first year as a practical support as we all learn together with a newborn, and then afterwards splitting time more evenly with our child. Of course flexibility is key and that will be my starting point always. I'm excited for the mother and I to feel like we have someone to rely on and to learn with. I grew up in Hampshire, studied at Oxford University and live in London with my husband and old dog, where I have worked for one of the big US internet companies my whole career. My husband and I are clear about our set up, with myself and the coparent as the legal parents, but with him keen and able to support and play a role to the extent that everyone is comfortable. I am financially secure and looking to move fast once I have met the right person. I have done the necessary fertility tests and all seems good. Many thanks!