Ryan / Seattle
 
 
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Biological Sex: Male

Age: 43

Location: Seattle, Washington, US

I'm a 182cm tall, fit, blond, with blue/grey eyes and an IQ of 136. I am also an enrolled member of the Cowlitz tribe, which allows children related to me to enroll in the tribe within the first year of their birth.

In the case of sperm donation, I offer either artificial or natural--the latter requiring STD testing and disclosure--as well as ongoing communication that will allow the parent(s) and/or child to ask further information of me throughout life (such as family health history, access to 23 & me profiling, etc. Under this arrangement, I would expect a legal exemption from child support or any similar forms of financial aid. I expect you (and your partner if in a relationship) are having a child because you are qualified financially, emotionally, and intellectually to raise a child.

For a person or couple with a large enough home or condo, am also open to a variety of co-parenting arrangements, with the understanding that sex is not a life focus for me (I'm not grossed out by sex, but I function largely as an asexual), I have zero interest in gender roles or perpetuating their paradigms, I travel a lot, and I would still seek a romantically compatible mate that I might move out for if found (depending on the level of integration with the children and needs of the couple). In this kind of situation, I would offer child care and assist actively in education (I have professionally taught at every age level in school) as a part time house husband, while working on my own private projects. I would require my own work and sleep space.

I genuinely desire to have many children, but wish to avoid the petty dramas that so often occur in traditional nuclear family units founded dubiously in the wake of fleeting hormonal love. I also care about the struggles of the LGBTQA community, and enjoy helping people find healthy arrangements for creating a family.

As genetic diversity is good for children, I have a preference for non-white matches.

My ideal situation would be co-parenting with a well educated and functionally non-religious (I know it's hard to say your not religious for women of some religious backgrounds) lesbian couple who can meet each other's romantic needs, but who would also value having a male presence in their children's lives. I am also willing to pretend to be a more normal husband to both parties for family occasions or provide a cover of normalcy in countries where homosexual relationships are illegal, or two women living together alone might be problematic for a variety of sociocultural reasons.

My ideal places to live are Japan, Singapore, and Taiwan, but I remain open to anywhere. In addition to English, I speak some Japanese, Mandarin, and German.

Interested In

  • IVF
  • Sperm Donation (donor)
  • Co-Parenting (male)
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