I work as an engineer and my partner works for the police. We are both homeowners and are now excited to start our own family. My partner would like to carry first and then I would like to carry after with the same donor. We are wanting no involvement with the donor once the baby is here but are happy to send a baby photo and when are baby is old enough if they want to make contact we are also happy with that. We are both non drinkers and smokers.