Thomas / London
 
 
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Biological Sex: Male

Age: 40

Location: London, England-London, GB

London-based tech professional seeking platonic co-parent to build multicultural family.

I've always known I wanted to be a father. For me, family is about creating a stable, loving, and stimulating home where a child can thrive. After five years of building a wonderful life here in London, I'm now seeking a platonic partner to share the incredible journey of raising a child together.

Originally from Germany, I have a deep appreciation for culture, language, and different perspectives. My dream is to raise a child who is fluent in both German and English, growing up with the best of both worlds in this amazing international city. As a senior manager in the tech industry, I have a life that is secure and stable, but my real passion is for growth—whether it's learning new things, exploring London's parks and museums, or connecting with people on a genuine level.

My path to fatherhood has been unique. My long-term romantic partner and I have a wonderful relationship, but we've come to realize we have different dreams when it comes to children. With her full support, I am looking at this as an opportunity to build a family outside the usual norms but on strong foundations: a deep, platonic friendship built on shared values, mutual respect, and emotional intelligence. My partner would likely not be involved in this, possibly live in a different place.

I'm looking for a woman (single or in a relationship / any sexual orientations) who is also financially independent and emotionally ready for this adventure. The ideal partnership for me would be one of open communication, shared responsibilities, and mutual values. I envision a family life where the child spends ~50% of their time with me and ~50% with the mother with both being able to flex as needed. While I was raised Christian, I am not practicing religion. I would appreciate a co-parent with a similar background.

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