I’m a New York City educator that spent the past decade focusing on higher education rather than relationships. I don’t feel the need for a romance at the moment but I would like to have a child soon. I’ve always known I wanted children but time caught up to me. I have friends who are now having children but they are finding it difficult to carry to term and have dealt with unfortunate tragedies. I can do what’s easiest and pick a donor but I know the importance of having both parents in a child’s life. I won’t deprive them of that. Just a warning; multiples have been known to pop up from time to time in my family tree.