I'm a married lesbian looking to start a family with my wife. We have been together for 15 years and married for 2 of those years. We really want to start a family and as we are getting older we figured we better get a start on it but found that going through sperm banks was really expensive. We are hoping to find a donor who will let us raise the child as we see fit and one who will pretty much give up all parental control to us.