I'm currently in a long term relationship with a woman I love, but who doesn't want children. I desperately want children and so we decided that finding a platonic coparent would be the best solution. I've recently went back to school and graduated and now I'm working in the tech field. Ideally we're looking for a woman interested in living nearby where we can both care for our children. My wife would be like a caregiver/stepmom, but would defer to myself and potential coparent when it came to raising the child.