In terms of logistics, it's going to be very difficult for me to coparent. So if you want a coparent, we need to discuss how much of my time you need. 3 hours a month, or 15 minutes a week is manageable, but I think coparenting implies more time than that, so I don't list coparenting as something I want, when in reality, I do. Conflicted.

As far as money and child support goes, I feel like if I'm paying, I should get some time with the child. So, if you already have a husband or daddy, and I'm just donor, I shouldn't be paying child support. Be clear if that is what you want. I will assume you don't.

I'm not confident that I'm the emotionally mature type to be married, the house car family married ideal, it just doesn't seem like I can be that for someone. At the same time, I'm not a partying drinking reckless type either. I'm more like the small cottage owning 10 year old car driving type.

I'm not looking to have lots of donor kids out there, I'm more semi-monogamous. My first concern was to help men who had vasectomies, then remarried and need sperm, or divorced women who want another baby but find dating impossible, or women who need because they have trouble getting pregnant. I was hoping to be baby daddy, or boy friend, or in a MFM/FFM/FMFM modern family. And in some cases only donor, but only some. The whole package requires discussion.

Thanks for checking on me!