I’m queer, poly, cis, animist, and engineer.

My heritage is -all- British isles (unfortunately). My raising was a combination of idyllic privilege and war zone PTSD causing events. Sometimes Mormon, sometimes Catholic, and then Buddhist or New Age.

I married (het, vanilla) young and had a daughter (now 19) before her father and I decided we weren’t going to have any more children together (the traditional seeming, bearded, “passing” marriage lasted 20 years!) And now a few years the other side of the divorce he asked for. 41. And realizing all I had given up to try and keep that relationship - not only made life difficult for my other poly partners - but also setting aside dreams like having a second child.

My current long term relationships (12 years, 11 years, 4 years) are all infertile or not biologically compatible. Though one, especially, would love to co-parent.

I am interested in co-parenting with the right individual at about any level from - kid getting contact info at an agreed upon age and contacting you themselves if they want to - to cards and letters and some visits - to active daily/weekly co-parenting if our lives are a match.