I would love to hear more from any men who are sincere about wanting to be a parent. I am a straight, well-educated woman living in New York. I've been planning to have a child using donor sperm. (I've started this process in terms of having the appropriate medical tests done, etc.) I had no idea a forum such as this existed. Now that I've found it I would love to hear more from men who are looking for the same thing as me. Maybe something good will come of it, maybe not, but it's certainly worth a try...