I'm a married man with a desire to have a child, my wife was diagnosed with pcos at 16 following her first miscarriage, she's since had 2 more losses which was devastating. We've been rejected by adoption agencies because we're so young, they don't see that we would like a family and we have the time and energy to do so. We don't want to undergo fertility meds again either. I know it sounds strange but our ideal situation would be 'cutting a deal' ie. Having a woman have our child for us in exchange of being guaranteed her own. If you're offended by this sorry, I don't know how else to put it.

My interests include music, DIY, cooking and owning small animals. My wife's interests include art, music, textiles and cooking, she is a home-maker.